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The 10 Basic Concepts In A Successful Marriage | Concept 3: The 7 Most Common Love Torpedoes

 

The reality in many relationships out there is that destructive habits that pour water over the Love Flame are at the forefront. 

 

If either you or your spouse project habits such as being dishonest, adulterous, disrespectfully judgemental, overly independent, annoying, selfish, and/or angry — your marriage is under threat of being destroyed by Love Torpedoes. Love Torpedoes completely ruin the feeling of love that couples have for one another.

 

Here are some explanations of some of the most common Love Torpedoes:

 

  1. Dishonesty: 

This encompasses a lack of honesty, integrity, openness, and transparency. Things like lies, cheating, and hiding of intentions or plans. Dishonesty is not only misinformation, but also intentionally leaving your partner with a false impression about something. 

 

  1. Infidelity: 

This constitutes cheating emotionally and/or sexually with another man or woman without your partner having any knowledge about it (of course, also a form of serious dishonesty). 

 

  1. Disrespectful Judgments: 

This constitutes a lack of respect towards individual opinions, beliefs, and behaviours. Things like ridiculing your partner’s statements, lecturing them, talking over them, or flat out judging the things that they say or think.

 

  1. Independent Behaviour: 

These are actions and behaviours that you partake in, without any consideration of your partner’s feelings. Some examples include scheduling weekend trips with friends, attending sporting events, going out partying, or inviting friends/family over without first checking in and discussing it with your spouse.

 

  1. Annoying Habits: 

These are repeated and inconsiderate behaviours that annoy or frustrate your partner. They can often seem like “small” and mindless things, such as leaving dirty dishes in the kitchen sink, leaving the toilet seat up, walking inside with your shoes on, using up all the hot water while showering, using your mobile phone during family dinners, or making sarcastic comments.

 

  1. Selfish Demands: 

This would be forcing your spouse to do things for you against his or her will – usually with an explicit or implicit threat of being “punished” if they refuse.

 

  1. Angry Outbursts: 

This is the deliberate use of anger or raising your voice to intimidate and hurt your partner – or to force them to comply with your wishes. 

 

You should really be doing everything it takes to protect each other from these harmful, yet very common, habits that are the root of unfathomable unhappiness in a marriage. By eradicating Love Torpedoes, you will be both protecting your partner, as well as upholding your partner’s feelings of love for you.

 

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